The Witches Pyramid


When I had my first dream about my niece, it was in 1990 and I was a high school student, and was a little weirded out by it, since it included the fact that I would most likely not see her to her majority. I knew that she would be the one to carry on the traditions of my family; the idea came to me to pass on my thoughts and knowledge as letters to reach her beyond my time and to make sure that she knew how much she is loved. It was brought to my attention that many others could be helped by these letters as well. And so the blog started.


This is how we will educate you, as a letter of love and joy to reach across time and space. I will try to teach you as much as I can while we are together but this is more to show you how long I loved you before you were even here. Most of this is just random thoughts to inspire, I hope that through this you find inspiration for your soul and food for you mind.

Speech, though integral to practicing the Path, is not so lasting as the word or drawn picture. Remember that magic breathes through you.

Before you start let us change some of the parameters of your thought processes:

  1. You ARE Limitless Splendor.
  2. You are responsible for EVERYTHING. –Not to blame, but in charge.
  3. I will love you always.
  4. Energy wants to change.
  5. No one truly dies

Stop…   Take a breath…

Magick (notice the ‘k’) is incredibly easy, most people do it every day without even knowing or acknowledging the change…

Well, let me rephrase that, most people START spells constantly throughout their day, but instead of directly using that energy, they doubt their own power and the spell fails.

For a spell to work successfully you must have a steady emotional base, you need to KNOW (what you want), DARE (to believe in yourself) , WILL (your reality to conform to your energy) and KEEP SILENT (do not give up or allow others to tear you down).

This is also called the Witches Pyramid or the Magician’s Manifesto.  Think before you act, sweetheart.








Ethics of Selfishness


We’ve all done it.

We have all, at one point or another, wished for a random windfall of money, for an illness to be over, for extra time or energy. Heck sometimes within the same day or same breath. But as a Wiccan, is it ethical to do a working or focus energy on something that is so self-centered?

I have to say yes.

Now to the why, the reason that I believe it is ethical… You and the Universe are one, as long as your intent and focus are not to harm or be harmed, what you ask and do for you should fall in line with your Integrity.  The caveat being that we must examine on a case by case basis the validity of each action and know that our Godhead (our connection to The Divine) will give us warnings in its language of emotion to let us know if we are falling away from Integrity.

What you do no matter how small is reflected in the Soul of every living being, so be the Light not the Stain.

Remember I love you almost as much as the Divine does.





Grounding and Centering

My Darling Child of the Goddess,

Now for some basics…

Grounding and centering…

Strangely as opposed to the name, one must first learn to center oneself before grounding will be effective.

Centering is finding that place within you where your body and mind and spirit overlap and is totally safe and calm, it is separate from all outside influence. I call is the seed of myself; it is the place where eternal love comes from.




So remembering that the Earth is living it too has a Center, grounding is the process of connecting your Center to the psychic Center of the Earth. Though the lesson is small this will be one of the hardest things to learn. You will draw and push energy much more smoothly for this part of your practice.